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Under the influence
As I look back on the last few weeks they were super intense but wildly clarifying and rewarding....yesterday was profound as I ended my time in 4th.....the seniors came back to visit us from the high school......and talk about having a full circle moment.....seeing the impact, and seeing them grown and well on their way to the lives of their choosing.....and I could still see their little 4th grade face inside of their grown face.....and it was magic......and spending time s
jperuso
Jun 62 min read
Today it ends..........
So today will be my last day as a 4th grade teacher.......ending my 22 year long stint in 4th grade......I student taught many years ago in a second grade and 4th grade class...and 4th grade was a clear winner.....I fell fast and hard for that age group......it is magic.....they are just old enough and young enough to be perfection:) And I can honestly say that I have loved every minute, perhaps except the Covid years, YIKES, what was that anyway lol:) But as I said due to th
jperuso
Jun 52 min read
Access Denied......
I guess as I am beginning to live in the contrast and I now understand so fully how I allowed access to me, and to my energy in ways that compromised so much of so much......and we can't go back that is true......and I know each step......or perhaps in some cases misstep brought me right HERE.......so all of it was a piece of that......but that is the harder part of healing.....shuddering to think of what happened before, what you allowed......and there was a place in me that
jperuso
Jun 43 min read
I choose you........
It's over......a flash in the pan side venture;-)......and the "why" in tow......I want to make it clear before I articulate this this morning, that the guy I spoke of the last couple of days is not a bad guy, in fact I believe he is a good guy in many ways....but he was sent to test me and my boundaries.......asking are you REALLY her????......I wrote about being seen by him in terms of his seeing my heart so early on, expressing that he felt I was as beautiful inside as out
jperuso
Jun 34 min read
A flight risk..........
As I am getting to know a new person, there are lots of things coming up......even if we never make it to a first date......but I am fairly certain we will...... he has expressed being attracted to me from a physical perspective initially.......isn't that the way it goes?? But having been getting to know me, and expanding some of his limited understanding of me, he has been remarking about the beauty he sees on the inside and in my heart......and all naive stuff aside.....wh
jperuso
Jun 24 min read
You have my attention.......
So I wrote about my random dating connection yesterday......and I am marveling still at the fact that he was able to grab my attention......as I am not jaded, that is not the word I would use, but that I am not exactly an eager dater or particularly motivated by it, and not easily wooed...... and if I am honest, it is the lowest rung on my priority list......not because I do not value what it can bring to a person's life, but because I just personally have not had much succes
jperuso
Jun 13 min read
Unhinged Cinderella.......
Last night WAS MAGIC........Echo Fields is an amazing place in Pine Island......adults get in for free, there is an admission fee for children and there are so many fun things for kids to do.....and they have free live music and food trucks, and a drink truck, and the atmosphere is just well done.......you can bring a chair or sit on these risers the owner built......the owner seems great, we talked to him last night, and they do fun fall stuff too......and I will definitely
jperuso
May 313 min read
Why.......I thought you'd never ask!
I have a dear friend that I met through my business.......she was granted a scholarship to my first women's series......my little grass roots one, that was around a table at my church........the beginning........:) And her finding me in the way she did, was meant to be......as some circumstances took hold in her own life during that series that made the "why" clear......and spending time with her is a gift to my life......we find ourselves at lunch, at a restaurant that takes
jperuso
May 304 min read
Left holding the bag......
That feels like the theme of the past few years......I have been handed so many things to "hold," stuff that didn't belong to me......stuff that wasn't mine to carry......but yet........and lots of things I have put down.....leaving them right where they were, and walking on......as much as I have been able. However there is one heartache that lives in the aftermath of my divorce, and I have written about it some as the years have marched on.....and it has come up again to br
jperuso
May 293 min read
Dissonance and Resonance......
I have lived in both........and I highly recommend resonance:)......it is funny, and I am still spending some time trying to understand some of what I have walked through.....and the why......I believe that the why unlocks the wisdom we are being handed......and there have been times in my life that dissonance ruled the day......walking upstream......against the current if you will......and I guess the piece I struggle with, is my knowing now that everything is ALWAYS working
jperuso
May 282 min read
Why are there so many of us????
I don't think a person has to look far to find some content or mention of "healing"......I am not alone in being in my healing era.....not in my own backyard, or within the collective BUT......it got me pondering the WHY.....WHY are there SO many of us!!!!!!!! And here is what I will say......this is not an attack on men.....I love men, I really do:) And know and have known some fine men in this life.....men that do the right thing, love their people fiercely and well, and d
jperuso
May 274 min read
Moriah Wilson.......
I spent this weekend staying close to home.....reveling in the rain, and moment to catch my breath......my daughter got to play with the neighbors in a fort they created in the top of our shed as the rain came pouring down and had great fun.....and my son is nursing a tiny cold......so being in felt perfect......so I busied myself around the house....cooking, making him my magical medicinal tea;-) and meal prepping for the week....I read some, and did some work for my busine
jperuso
May 264 min read
So damn messy...
Grief is complicated right?? I think if you have ever grieved anything, and we all have......it is layered....no clean lines.....but I think when you have been subjected to deep betrayal that makes grief messier.....and I just had another piece step forward......that puts words to another layer of grief......when my marriage ended......I grieved the loss of my family of four and I thought that grief might end me.......feeling shattered by the thought that no matter what love
jperuso
May 253 min read
Epic challenge up ahead......
I have wanted to do the Mammoth March for awhile now......it is a 20 mile hike.....in one day.....they have many locations.....and the one that may work is near Pittsburgh at the Allegheny State Park on October 10th......and you can do the 30 mile one too.....but I think 20 is good to start with;-) and then 30 miles can be up ahead:).....and I only know that 20 is a huge challenge because the longest I have hiked has been 8.5 miles.....and 8.5 miles in the woods is a lot....
jperuso
May 242 min read
Who are you???
This week I had a very unique and wild situation find me.......and I was thrust right in the middle......and it was stressful no doubt.....but it found its resolution as those things always do, but that was in part because I stayed rooted in myself.....at first it jangled my calm, no question....and if I shared it, you would agree that it was..........but it required me to find my center again so I could proceed in a way that helped me remain true to myself and do the right t
jperuso
May 232 min read
You embarrassed me......
I think we want to be proud of our partners right? Feeling like they are upstanding humans.....ones that do the right thing.....behave with integrity.....act in ways that people can admire......not perfect people.........but good and decent people, ones that behave well when nobody is watching.......behind closed doors.......all of it......and I don't think that fact has much to do with us wanting to keep up with an image, or caring all that much what people think of us......
jperuso
May 223 min read
Tattooed evolution
I have been walking in another layer of my evolution since I walked away from the last relationship I was in.....never having him have the honor to confirm all I knew to be true......just hiding in his shadows and lies......but on the other side, and especially in the fallout of learning who he really was......and seeing it all so clearly, I have stepped into another place.....a place where my worth and self respect are in a place they have never been.....and I have mentioned
jperuso
May 213 min read
This is really hard........
There is an ethereal quality that sometimes takes over my life.......I know that seems extreme and over the top, but it absolutely feels true, and is why I believe in magic;-).......euphoric almost, but at the same time a dream like state takes over that makes my mind wonder like how could all that have been real? And the hard part is reconciling the two places.....the place where I know what happened to me was horrifying and wildly painful.......and completely wrong in ever
jperuso
May 202 min read
Nashville!
I have decided to get even more intentional about adventuring this summer with my kids.....we have been taking some really cool trips, and having fun adventures the last few years often, and this summer I want to turn it up some;-) I had hoped Grand Canyon would be a part of that, but I think my sights are on that for next year, maybe spring break time, when it isn't quite so hot yet......I will get there with my kids, I know that, and now with my west trip in play for my fr
jperuso
May 193 min read
Tiptoeing???.......
As my weekend wraps up I am reminded of the power that lies in being with the people in your life that can trod around, not tiptoe.......I want to be able to say the things....all of them.....the honest things.....the authentic things......I am not made for surface level....I want to deep dive....and learn all about you, what makes you YOU......I want to say it all....and sometimes I need to tiptoe some, and that is OK.....we all have tiptoe people.....either tiptoeing around
jperuso
May 182 min read
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After my own challenging divorce, I fell in love with my own life, and became a certified coach to help other women do the same! I also run empowerment workshops for young girls! I am fiercely passionate about all things health, wellness, and empowerment in all its forms! Life is meant to be LIVED! And watching people WIN is my passion! Reach out to find out how I can support your own inner wisdom to do just that ❤️
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