MORE MAGIC!

So what you focus on grows, that is some truth I have discovered for sure, and also what you choose to focus on changes the way your life FEELS......yesterday I blissed out, and ran around all day dressed as JOY from "Inside Out," feeling that so deeply....having that feel like ME......and then we went trick or treating last night, and it ended up being a beautiful night in town.....I was not all that excited to go, but the magic of it got a hold of me.....and it was beautiful.....we went out to dinner at the diner with Mads and a new friend, and her mom and sister.....and it ended up being a lovely night......and the other night I had a Zoom meet about my website with some people I had worked with back down the road, in a different capacity....and we laughed and connected....and they are a light filled couple, that makes so much sense for me to work with me on this.....and that felt so fun and lovely....I did a free consultation with a divorcing mama, that feels lost and scared....and I am doing my best to support her in that....but our interaction felt very divinely placed, and right there......and so as I sit here this morning the reminder keeps circling.....WE ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR OUR OWN JOY! period.......making any other person, thing, or circumstance, responsible for any of it, will lead to deep unhappiness,.......just like I explored yesterday......and if we spend our energy cultivating and nurturing that we will know the way we need to go.....this week I do that presentation for my school district.....trusting that whoever finds their way to my session will be meant to be there:) and I am excited to grow in that.......being out of my normal flow and comfort zone, and trying a new thing! I am also planning on catching a full moon hike this week with my kids.....another way to cultivate joy:) And it does matter y'all.....the energy we use to FEEL GOOD.....in healthy ways.....because it has a way of seeping into all areas of our lives.....and again, I always lean into my tool box.......nature......meditation.......exercise......writing......music......good sleep, and adventures with my kids, family, and friends on repeat:) I told that client the other night....that in the early days I fancied myself the eye of the storm I was in.....the one that was raging around me......and by the way continues to nearly 5 years later, and I believed that saved me.....not getting swept up in it, and let me tell you it would have easy to do.......but using my strength to stand in the middle of it and center my spirit fully to withstand it, was so so paramount to where I am sitting today! The storms won't stop y'all, but you can jump in those puddles while you are grinning! I promise! Have an amazing day:)