The Butterfly Effect.......

"The butterfly effect is a concept in chaos theory stating that tiny, minor changes in the beginning of a complex system can lead to massive, unpredictable results later. The famous metaphor means a butterfly flapping its wings in one place could trigger a tornado far away weeks later. "

I believe in this deeply......that one action, no matter how small can have a profound effect.....and that we need to be mindful of that......I have so much more I can say, or share related to the stories that I have lived in, on many fronts......and I choose not to share some of it either publicly, or to the people it is relevant to, because I believe in this effect so fully, and I believe in the care it requires.....and sometimes things cannot be taken back, and those things create a cascade of unintended consequences, and I simply do not think that is up to me, or want to bear the responsibility of that........it is not my business.....and my overreaching belief is that speaking the truth is important, it really is.......but only as it pertains to the place where you arrive at your peace, and acceptance, and set most of the story straight.....when it involves affecting other people's lives, I feel it is best to leave it alone......and I say that, while also saying it hasn't been easy......to not say, not confront, not express all I know, but it has been the right thing to do......the other piece for me, that I have come to understand......people are only willing to HEAR so much, and if it doesn't fit their narrative, it will fall on deaf ears anyway, and cause nothing but drama......and who wants drama in their lives......especially in middle age:) Not me......and we are all walking our own divine journeys, and I believe truth has a way of making itself known at the most divinely placed times anyway.....without any interference.......I will say that I still remain grateful to the woman who outted my recent ex, something I had prayed for confirmation of.......because I KNEW.....KNEW all she expressed, I just needed to see it I guess to believe myself, which seems silly now, but felt true at the time, and she definitely went out on a limb......all butterfly effect and stuff lol:) And I definitely would not have proceeded that way......but she for sure showed me something I needed to SEE......so fully and completely.....in a way that unseeing it all would never be possible......and I suppose her action is in line with the butterfly effect and was her role in that......I will always speak honestly if asked a question.....but I do not believe in offering unsolicited truth, when it becomes clear it is not welcome.......I also think freedom arrives when we realize that we are ALL on our own journey.....and when we leave stories, or are left by story lines, other ones pick up, for us and them......and I have grown to view the beauty in it:)......and a sorta matter of fact energy.......it just is.....and I think as humans we know we would never jump back into the stories we have lived in, never........outgrowing them and not wishing to go back, it has not been my experience or of the clients I have worked with.....it is always the pain that needs to be reconciled.....but the expression of it being better always exists......and I love that for all of us:) So yea.......as open and honest as I am.....and seek to be as I have been healing, I have limits......keeping the butterfly effect in the forefront of my mind......letting it drive the bus, and knowing some things just aren't my business.......aren't for me to unearth......for me to leave alone......and let be.......besides causing anybody unnecessary pain is never my goal, for the sake of it, or any of that low vibing stuff......yikes:( I would never want to hurt anybody, no matter what has happened.....not intentionally anyway......I want everybody to be OK......to make it through the Labyrinth that is this life;-) So I guess I share today, to have us all be mindful of the things we share with people.....asking ourselves if it is really necessary?? And if so, then proceed for sure, but if not......keeping it closer to the cuff is OK, not dishonest.......humans are messy and complicated......and so many other things......and some things are better left be, left unsaid, and in the past indeed........and we are all just living our own lives everyday......based on our own perspective, our own experience, and based on our own life stuff.......and I believe that each and every day that is enough:) Happy Saturday:)