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Ouch, Ouch, Ouch,!!!!!!........
I have written the last couple of days some how 9/11 hit me deeply, and the remembering of it so fully this year hit a little deeper......and then it led to thinking of the amount of pain there is to carry in this world....and perhaps also thinking of it in terms of my own lifetime.....thinking what the last 50 years has handed me, the grief, the challenges, the pain......both on a global scale, and in my own life.......and I think maybe that is what I struggle with sometimes
jperuso
21 minutes ago4 min read
My toxic trait.........
Well one of them;-) .........We all have them right?? Parts of ourselves that if we are lucky we can recognize are not the best parts, or the ones serving us in the best ways, or contributing to our highest good......And I think we come by them honestly.....either having them modeled for us or picking them up somewhere along the way.....and one of mine can be too much productivity......pushing myself too far.....or past the things I need to. Let me explain:) And why it is to
jperuso
1 day ago3 min read
How about that.....???
I love dreams and the analyzing of them, and the wondering about them.....and this week I have been taking on a very vivid Odyssey in my dreams of safety, and what it feels like to be safe in somebody's energy.....and being responsible for keeping somebody safe.....and in some of my dreams it was my responsibility to my kids.....and in some it was the responsibility of the people in my life.....romantically....and it has been a stroll down memory lane.....one previous counter
jperuso
2 days ago3 min read
All choked up.......
Yesterday I had written about September 11th and it still profoundly affects me.....as it does so many......we did a full minute of silence yesterday morning at school and some of my boys were being silly and laughing.....and that is total kid stuff.....kids laugh when they feel uncomfortable......but I very clearly expressed that it is not funny, or a reason to laugh, and for the first time in a long time we talked about it some....they had some questions or comments to make
jperuso
3 days ago2 min read
September 11th 2001......
It is hard to believe that 25 years have gone by since that fate filled day......As I think back on that, it was a day that changed the trajectory of the world......similar to the pandemic, even though so different, but shifting the world from one place to another for sure....with the bridge in between burned, and with no way back to the old.....I was teaching that morning.....in another place......freshly out of college, and just beginning, and we had a morning news station
jperuso
4 days ago2 min read
Totally torn......but I do miss it.....
I write often about the conflicting parts that live within me......and I have very different, and very strong parts of who I am that pull at me, and are for sure competing ones......A part of me.....my Taurus sun, and Leo Moon loved being married.......the tradition of it, for so long until I didn't....but having a home, and tending to all of it felt like me, still does a lot of the time.......and now, having been officially single for almost 6 years in a real sense.......and
jperuso
5 days ago3 min read
It is sickening......
I have written recently about the part of healing where you stand in front of the mirror, and look at your role in all of it, and your accountability in what you allowed......and I had some moments yesterday that were just horrifying to me now........having a hard time imagining the version of me that was chasing love, and in the places...... with people that did the things that they did........and continually fighting to be good enough......working harder.....jumping higher.
jperuso
6 days ago4 min read
Well that was a surprise!
I have been off since Friday and the entire weekend has been full of surprises......I had a loose "plan" for the weekend, and then it took flight.....didn't expect my huge car bill Friday, that feels likes eons ago all things considered......then I connected with a new client.....decided to pull the trigger for our big hike, also didn't expect the difficulty of that trail.......renovated my bathroom, and painted my hallway and trim.....and meal prepped! Ready for a great week
jperuso
Sep 82 min read
Rogue bathroom reno
So.......I have put myself in a bit of a spot today lol:) My intention when yesterday began, was to use the trim paint I already had to paint my bedroom and get some paint to paint my hallway......which I did......however I am still working on the hallway, because my bathroom got thrown into the mix somehow lol:) I cannot explain what happened really......the energy of the day swallowing me up.....It started with my wondering what would happen if........if I painted one of th
jperuso
Sep 72 min read
I have proof!
So yesterday's hike was no joke.....One of the top toughest trails we have done....and I had seen the rating before we went, but I guess I wanted to feel it was over exaggerated lol:) And we wanted to add it to our list, the kids loved how it looked, and agreed to give it a go....we have a bucket list of trails, both close, and some that will need to be traveled to.....we have knocked so many of them out.....and have so many to go:) And I have so many thoughts today about it.
jperuso
Sep 63 min read
Opportunity and adventure! Let's GO:)
I have very much been experiencing life in the space of ebb and flow as of late....something challenging will happen or bubble up, and then there will be something amazing, and the contrast has been on repeat, and so noticeable.....and it has been kind of curious not only to experience but also to observe......so in that spirit.....I had my car serviced yesterday, leaving me with a $1600 responsibility, and I still need to put 4 tires on it next week......I know ugh right....
jperuso
Sep 53 min read
Whose the breadwinner??
I think this has been one of the more surprising parts of my story for me, and certainly where the pressure increases.......I am the breadwinner in my family of 3......in every way....and while my ex does pay child support, and I am grateful for it and it helps, it is a drop in the bucket in this economy for our kids........that is true, it doesn't even cover our entire food bill for the month, let alone the rest......and I don't have to preach to anybody about the expense th
jperuso
Sep 43 min read
Shame.......
I believe deeply that shame is one of the most toxic of all emotions......and when it lives in somebody it paralyzes them, and causes them so many more problems......and some people live their lives in a way that compounds their shame......or in ways that frees them from it.....but I have a deep belief that shame is not productive, and we should never attempt to shame another person no matter what......and when I look back on the stories I have lived through I have really don
jperuso
Sep 32 min read
Love......
I love love.....I really do.......in all of its forms.....the love we hold for our people......friends, children, partners.....ALL of it.......and I am not casual about the expression of it at all.....I hold it in a sacred spot......and it has been the thing that has transformed my life in the most wonderful ways, and also harmed me too......and I think I am narrowing in on where the hurt lies for me......I am good at loving people......again not perfect, at all.....but good
jperuso
Sep 23 min read
First day vibes......
Yesterday I touched down in 5th grade.....and it was different, for sure.....I walked past my old classroom, and my team......and we hugged when we passed near the office.:) My people:) And my new team is super sweet and welcoming, despite my feeling really NEW..... the newness of it all felt squeaky for sure......like new sneakers....needing time to be broken in some, and feel like your own......I feel like I will fit in great with them, and we will make a great team.......a
jperuso
Sep 13 min read
A very disturbing read........
I am reading "Nobody's Girl,"......by Virginia Roberts Giuffre......and it is a tough read.....she was one of Epstein's victims.......and I bought this book, back in July, when I was stranded in the Chicago airport when I came home from Wyoming........facing the potential of sleeping in the airport, or somewhere else, and deciding if I was going to spend my money, on an overpriced book at the airport book store, I was going to support her story, and the bravery it took for h
jperuso
Aug 314 min read
Well that was fast!!!!
Tomorrow marks the beginning of the last quarter of this year......how did that happen right??? Only 4 months left......hard to believe.....but here we are......so I guess that notion is setting my intention surrounding what I am building in this final quarter in terms of my business and where it is headed.....I have that larger group of I Got You Girls on my calendar for the remainder of the year, and I am working to connect it all in a way that makes sense.....I have a wome
jperuso
Aug 302 min read
Indulge me please :) .....
So regardless of what you believe, I am asking, if you are reading this to try and keep an open mind:) Please;-) I said yesterday that I had something fun planned while my kiddos were in school and I had a rogue day off......and I was able to get a reading with a world famous astrologer at a very discounted price and I took it:).....because I listen to some of his stuff, and I love the way his mind works.....he is a a historian at heart.....so one of the things I love to list
jperuso
Aug 294 min read
Hey there, could ya hook a girl up????
Yesterday was a wildly blessed day in some of the simplest of ways......and in the wake of it I am wondering if it was due to something I did on Wednesday night, which I will share in more detail in a moment;-).......my doctor's appointment yesterday morning I said carried some weight....and when I went, the doctor clarified some things that took some of the weight out of it......I had been misinformed some previously......and it all ended up going much better than I had expe
jperuso
Aug 283 min read
Uncomfortable Places.......
I am up early again.....hoping to head to in -service later, after having a doctor's appointment this morning that holds some weight.......and will dictate what the rest of my day looks like, and I am leaning into the faith in it all.....and in my journey.....I slept well last night which was awesome, the full moon doesn't always allow me to do that so well:) And adjusting to my work schedule has rattled my sleep some this week and all the moving parts of my life....but yeste
jperuso
Aug 273 min read
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I am passionate about the human condition, and alchemizing our stories to reach our highest good! Purpose from our pain~
After my own challenging divorce, I fell in love with my own life, and became a certified coach to help other women do the same! I also run empowerment workshops for young girls! I am fiercely passionate about all things health, wellness, and empowerment in all its forms! Life is meant to be LIVED! And watching people WIN is my passion! Reach out to find out how I can support your own inner wisdom to do just that ❤️
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