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I can't believe I did this!!
Sometimes the right thing is the hard thing......and we are called to step into that....through an odd series of events yesterday, I was reminded of something I did at the end of my marriage, that a part of me is proud of, but another part of me finds hard to believe I could do....when the affair was confirmed, and we had decided we were going to work it out, and try and save our marriage......I didn't believe he should end it by text with her, or I guess more importantly I j
jperuso
2 minutes ago5 min read
Did you consider THIS???
I don't feel considered much of the time in this life in certain places in my life.....and sometimes that is especially painful because I really do my best to consider others.....and THAT feeling showed up yesterday in like 5 different places in my life.....and working to assert yourself, and shed the doormat energy you may have once possessed, is not easy and it is tiring......because as I shift and change, and understand so much, having crisp clarity arrive for me, the peop
jperuso
1 day ago3 min read
I can't hear you anymore......
I think one of the rabbit holes that captivates me is the shift in energy between people.....I sat at my table last night, and met with my son's supports coordinator as he is aging....and it is a daunting thing to discuss......what adult life will look and feel like for my sweet boy......what makes sense for him.....where does he fit in this world.....where is he able to live his best life, and what does that look like....and of course after she left I felt the aloneness in i
jperuso
2 days ago4 min read
Grand Canyon after all.....
My intention was to get to the Grand Canyon this past summer and it did not happen, other adventures stepped forward, and well Wyoming, though.....:) And the summer evolved just as it should have.....and I have no doubt that the kids and I will bask in all the canyon goodness out West soon! And hit all of them! But I was feeling captivated by the fall beauty this fall and wondering if we could grab a quick weekend away this year with them......originally contemplating heading
jperuso
3 days ago2 min read
John Cusack.......
So for the record if you asked whether I find John Cusack physically handsome or striking.......the answer would likely be no.......but there is something about him right?? Attractive in his own right, and he for sure captured my heart all those years ago when I saw "Say Anything,".......the romance in that movie, that boombox though:)......and I saw an event the other day that he is hosting locally, and it was intriguing, and one of my FB friends had gone to one not too long
jperuso
4 days ago2 min read
Riches!!!!
My life has been wrought with struggle......no question.......and at some points I believed whatever the challenge of the day was might end me.....being too big to overcome and yet......here I sit......I am sitting in a magnificent little lake house......the house being in the family of one of my really good friends.......after having a splendid girl's day and night......all my gals are still sleeping, and I am sitting in the quiet, sipping my coffee.....despite not getting t
jperuso
5 days ago2 min read
A truly harrowing experience yesterday......
I ended up having a great day at work, kickball game was a hit.....I was the pitcher, which was so fun, and my long time friend from work supported the kids in all of their roles too.....we laughed a lot, and it took them a little bit to learn how to play......but they all got there and it was a hit......so I left work on a high......ready for my weekend......admiring the beautiful trees as I drove.....I needed to stop and get gas which is often the case lol:) And I stopped s
jperuso
6 days ago4 min read
Halloween partay, lake time, and kickball!!!!
I have been in a zone of savoring life, really honing in on slowing it all down, and enjoying what comes, and the moments that I GET TO live in:)......it is a gift that is not lost on me ever......and this week I found myself really in the moment with my class and my class even more than usual.......and I was walking the playground during recess, and a kid from my class was chatting with me, and he was asking why one part of our field is overgrown.....and it is a place where
jperuso
Oct 92 min read
A stepdad???........
This is a topic that is tough for me........and one along this journey that has challenged me......my kid's have a dad......and from the moment he left I have never thought of eagerly pursuing filling that position......and for all intents and purposes I fill the role of my kid's dad in their day to day too......I am their dad, and mom most days......and I guess I have felt competent in my role as both since he left......knowing I could fill the shoes so to speak. Also feelin
jperuso
Oct 84 min read
Does IT add up???
I never dreamed that life would look like this at this point in my life.....not having deep exploration of self, and growth on my Bingo card when I set out lol:) But here I am.....and I am being called to eradicate things that no longer serve me so I can better be able to walk in tomorrow.....and I really do KNOW that.....once upon a time, the only picture I had of my life, was the married one.....forever and ever.......till little old people status......the end......but now
jperuso
Oct 73 min read
"You are TOO much!".....
Having that appointment on Saturday, and digging into my healing has unearthed some stuff, things that I think are important to look at........I often write about what I have experienced in terms of love and being loved......having always felt as if giving love has been easier for me than receiving love......but there is another layer....the part that I suppose is painful for me, and maybe stepping forward more than ever, is realizing I have REALLY been loved and adored in th
jperuso
Oct 64 min read
Hey Phil.......
So this was interesting.......I sorta connected with a Phillip who lives 4 hours away, a pilot, ......and really when I say connect, it was pretty much each of us liking each other's profile, and the way we looked, and lamenting about the distance between us.......it is always the far away ones it seems, or the cute super short ones lol:) I do not think we will continue chatting, likely letting the distance as a barrier to getting to know one another some.....but either way
jperuso
Oct 52 min read
I tried IT!!!!!!
I had written the other day that I was fixing to try the "One Brain" method for further healing, and yesterday I met with a lovely woman and did just that.....my kiddos got to hang on their devices in her living room.....she was recommended by somebody I know.....and I took us to Texas Roadhouse after to thank them for coming along for the ride:) Having gotten to squeeze mowing into the morning......and I have some background in muscle testing, particularly the kind she uses.
jperuso
Oct 44 min read
Holding myself accountable.......
This chapter has been about holding myself accountable to my health habits, my goals, my dreams all of it.......I consider myself to be somebody that is pretty good at dealing with finances......it has always been on my docket and my responsibility .....and while I have accrued debt at certain times in my life, I have always paid it off.......and about 6 months ago I needed to restructure some stuff......and I also don't like to have debt in this chapter as I was debt free a
jperuso
Oct 33 min read
Out of nothing at all........
Most of my founding "I Got YOU girls," could make it last night for our session, and we tackled the tools in our toolbox......coping strategies all of it, and we talked about all of the things we can do to feel better, amid all the big feelings that come......we also meditated together.......talking about the importance of that......and we talked about our "circles of support"....and I asked them to share theirs.....and they listed their people, moms, dads, siblings, grandpar
jperuso
Oct 23 min read
Sure, I will try it!!!???
My good friend worked as a receptionist for an acupuncture clinic......and she met somebody through there that told her about a healing modality......saying that it changed their life......bold statement right?? Even went on to further say that it was the MOST healing thing they had ever done.....so she shared that with me, giving me the woman's contact information and making an appointment herself, and I was intrigued......the woman does not charge a lot at all, and it was
jperuso
Oct 13 min read
THIS day........
Getting back in the swing this week has been challenging, lots of moving parts at work, and home.....but after two days I am feeling my sea legs again......I have my workshop this week with my gals and am looking forward to that......thinking I am going to tackle my deck this weekend, and put most of it away.....I am going to hang onto my gazebo space some.....it has a hard top now.....and I am putting the chairs under to have a little fire area under there....it has the canv
jperuso
Sep 303 min read
Greener grass.....and predators
I have been following that church guy on trial for murdering his wife because of his relationship with his 25 year old mistress.......the one he met at church.......and it disgusts me when people claim to be one way, hiding in their religion, and then behaving in hypocritical ways......using their rhetoric to hide their truth.....or try......I find it super disrespectful to the beauty of faith, and I believe it is why so many people are turned off from church and religion at
jperuso
Sep 294 min read
Maybe it can be ALL of it........
I ended my blog yesterday with a wish of sorts......wanting to be able to hold the memory of the love stories I have walked in, the good stuff, alongside the awful stuff that happened in the final chapters.....and I suppose that has been my struggle for awhile now.....the endings, the betrayal, the dishonesty, and the disloyalty being SO loud that it has drowned out the rest....but maybe it can be all of it.....I can seek to be a bottom line person.....seeking to make sense o
jperuso
Sep 284 min read
Foreshadowing and OUCH!!!!......
I drove us home yesterday.....grateful that I feel free to drive us wherever we need to be....realizing that some people don't feel like that......and realizing we would never go anywhere if I waited for somebody to drive us lol:) And besides I truly do love it......and traveling with my kids is one of the easiest and greatest joys in my life:) I was also proud of myself......I drove over the Chesapeake Bridge in the crazy wind......it was on speed restriction to 45mph, and i
jperuso
Sep 275 min read
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After my own challenging divorce, I fell in love with my own life, and became a certified coach to help other women do the same! I also run empowerment workshops for young girls! I am fiercely passionate about all things health, wellness, and empowerment in all its forms! Life is meant to be LIVED! And watching people WIN is my passion! Reach out to find out how I can support your own inner wisdom to do just that ❤️
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