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Please don't kiss me......
That recent date I went on, made me think some, just about the "rules and norms" on modern dating, and middle aged dating in particular.....when you are young, and meeting people, or dating, or any of it, it just makes sense......I knew what to do, perhaps having youth on my side;-) However I find middle aged dating to be something entirely different.....and there was a moment that happened on the date I recently had, that made me wonder what it was I was feeling.....and I th
jperuso
Jan 104 min read
Love of my life........
We all have elusive places in our lives.....or maybe not....perhaps there are people out there that have it ALL;-) whatever that means;-)......what does that mean anyway???....to have it all....sometimes I feel that way.....no lack creeping in.....I am blessed to live in a beautiful home, I have a healthy and sound body, mind, and spirit, I have healthy children, I make enough to make a nice life for us, we have full bellies:)......and I am happy and peaceful.....:) But I ha
jperuso
Jan 93 min read
Just WHY!!!????
In sharing my "anniversary" post yesterday, I realize it may may be questioned by some.....like why after all these years keep mentioning it?.....That is a valid question....and well there are so many things that come to mind to answer that question.....first the clarification of my not being stuck in the place of my divorce.....I am not....I never want anybody to think that even for a second, that THIS whole thing defines my life, in a real sense, THIS journey has unfolded t
jperuso
Jan 82 min read
You walked out on me 5 years ago and well.......
Today IS the day.....the day that my heart has felt for a couple of months now....cathartic spaces circling round, as I walked my way here. The body keeps score.....no doubt....and my body always feels this day as it circles round each year....but not as you would think........Having it be the most profound event in all of my life......or perhaps the most pivotal, it always comes packing something for me....and this year it is a summit point.....I have talked about having loo
jperuso
Jan 74 min read
My ache for my girl.....
A few months before I found out I was pregnant with a girl, I longed for a daughter......a longing that took me quite by surprise and one that was so strong....and if I had tried to order a daughter......outlining all the specs and characteristics.....I would have fallen short of creating all the pieces of who she is....she is an extraordinary person....I know I am bias;-) but many other people have echoed that sentiment, and much of it to do with just who she is....and how s
jperuso
Jan 63 min read
Here we go......
This break has been lovely....really......it seems so long ago that it was Christmas Day already in a weird way that doesn't make sense:).....but having a full two weeks was substantial.....and as I look to school beginning again....we are in a long run of the year.....winter is tough.....disrupted schedules due to weather....germs abound.....long spans without a break....so I am taking a deep breath, as we board the second half of the year....the first half was great! And I
jperuso
Jan 52 min read
The Elephant girls~!
The journey to this place, this morning, right where I am.....has been so often hallmarked for me as a journey without love, because of the stark absence of a healthy romantic love in my life....and having so much of what happened be such a blatant lack of love......teaching me to learn to love myself.....well....and well that was the point I believe:).....but last night made me view it so differently....my kids always fill the love spot for me.....always and that is never lo
jperuso
Jan 43 min read
The Sisterhood Soiree!!!
There have been many cathartic notes finding me as this year closes.....and places where nostalgia lives....and as I approach the 5 year mark of my journey as a divorced gal, that has held some emotions for me......reflection.....all of it.....and so I had decided awhile back to extend an invite to my circle of women.....and bring them all together tonight....and thank them for walking this path with me.....and really it could have encompassed so many women.....there are so m
jperuso
Jan 33 min read
You make me uncomfortable......
The human condition and psychology is fascinating truly.....the more I learn, the more I seek to learn.....and truthfully all of the hours of therapy, and study I have done has helped me more than anything I have done to heal....because when you truly discover that what people do is a direct reflection of their internal state, it takes the sting out of it. And helps ease unnecessary hurt, because most of the time it isn't about you.....it is about their emotional landscape...
jperuso
Jan 24 min read
Reclamation of my RED as I rang in the NEW year!!!!!
So I did a thing last night, with the help of my mama.....and I bought a box of dye, actually two at the store, and went ALL in on reclaiming more of my red from long ago as this New Year found me.....and I LOVE IT!!!! It was time.....and so apropos.....as I was feeling this deep transformation of who I was, and feeling sorta brand new again in this journey again in some new ways.....and well this new gal, needed a new do;-) ....and here is the cool thing that stuck out to m
jperuso
Jan 12 min read
Wait a wedding??? What???
Today marks a completion for me.....from what I have read is a 9 year cycle for us all....how that resonates for you is what is true.....it began in 2016......and for me that is the year I had my daughter.....and maybe for that first year of that, my marriage was in a good spot....we really enjoyed her, and her arrival sparked life in our challenged marriage....having been mom and dad to our sweet and special boy before her she came on the scene......and then in 2017, more 20
jperuso
Dec 31, 20253 min read
The gifts of 2025........
I see so many people in awe of the change and the things 2025 brought to their doorsteps....maybe reeling some. Looking back and thinking, wow, how did I survive that.....or wow, I am SO different than I was last January 1st, and for me that one resonates so so deeply......this year has brought transformational change, the kind that excavates your soul, and asks you to dig deeper......and I have done that.....digging in.....and swimming in the depths of myself to bring about
jperuso
Dec 30, 20253 min read
Exit stage left.......
To "Exit stage left" means to leave a situation quickly, quietly, or embarrassingly, often making way for others" And this week.......... amid the holiday loveliness.... has also found me deep diving into apparently some healing that I was being called to do....see that is the cool thing now, when something surfaces for me, I trust it, and I know it is for me to look at it and move through it....Somebody else posted about their deep dive in the past etc and ooof....right??? A
jperuso
Dec 29, 20253 min read
The LAST time.....
Perhaps for the first time in my life, the last couple of years has had me pondering the power found in the LAST time.....we never know when something we love to do has met its completion.....the last time finding its way into our story.....the last time we have dinner with our grandparents.....the last time we hold our baby......the last time we speak to somebody we once loved.....the last time we hug somebody......the last time we celebrate something a certain way.....the l
jperuso
Dec 28, 20252 min read
Hiding behind the nice guy......
There have been many lessons that will be carried into 2026 with me.....the lessons, not the baggage;-).....and one of them is that my intuition is SO strong now.....I have carried it with me all of my life, but now I feel it so fully......I had mentioned going on that date....and feeling as if, despite our having a lovely time, we may be mismatched in some ways....but we had also become friends on FB, and I thought we may build a friendship and we had talked about that....an
jperuso
Dec 27, 20252 min read
I DID IT!!!!!
I set out this holiday season to crank the magic up some, my girl perhaps bidding farewell to Santa this year, even though she doesn't know it yet:( Although she wants to believe deeply, so perhaps next year will find her wanting to live Santa in our home:) however Santa will always be alive in our home, for my son.....he will always believe and therefore lend us his Christmas magic;-).......but based on some signs, I felt that perhaps Santa wouldn't reside in the same way h
jperuso
Dec 26, 20252 min read
Becoming HIM...
I fell asleep last night, rookie mistake......I don't know what I was thinking....my gal wanted to sleep with her mama and I was so tired.....this cold has gotten so much better, but it definitely has zapped my energy amid the holiday bustle.....and I closed me eyes.....and well....we know what happened, out cold lol:) Luckily my daughter woke up talking in her sleep and hot.....and she woke me up, and then quickly fell back to sleep, so I could do my Santa stuff....and since
jperuso
Dec 25, 20252 min read
Christmas Eve of long ago......
Christmas Eve is my favorite.....maybe more than Christmas Day.....magic filling the air....the feeling palpable....and I often think about all the traditions I walked through in my lifetime....and that undeniable piece, where we do not know when it is the last time....the last time we share a tradition with a group of people....and mostly that makes me think of my grandparents.....trying to remember when the last time they came to my parent's house for Christmas Eve was, and
jperuso
Dec 24, 20252 min read
The catalyst that is the other woman
My story houses another woman......the one my ex husband ended up leaving for....and 5 years later there are so many takeaways from living that experience.....I do not hold her responsible or give her credit for the things she forced me to learn and see, or the growth that has found me as a result of all I went through.....but she most definitely was a catalyst of change in my life......initially sparking my primal fight for MY family......for MY husband....and igniting that
jperuso
Dec 23, 20253 min read
This part is tough, ouch.....
On January 7th of 2026, it will mark the 5 year anniversary of my being a resident in my new life.....and as I have said there is so much of it I have really enjoyed.......new adventures...new paths....a fresh new perspective in every part of my life.....renewed health....spirit......peace......joy.....love.......all of it.......like a magic carpet ride I never asked to ride:)......but as 5 years approaches, there is some grief......grief in the acceptance of living the last
jperuso
Dec 22, 20253 min read
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After my own challenging divorce, I fell in love with my own life, and became a certified coach to help other women do the same! I also run empowerment workshops for young girls! I am fiercely passionate about all things health, wellness, and empowerment in all its forms! Life is meant to be LIVED! And watching people WIN is my passion! Reach out to find out how I can support your own inner wisdom to do just that ❤️
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